How to See If Someone Added You as a Friend on Discord

Key takeaways:

  • You can check your pending friend requests on Discord to see who has added you
  • Mutual friends and servers can help you identify who sent a friend request
  • Adjusting your privacy settings allows you to control who can send you friend requests

Discord is a popular platform for gamers and communities to connect and communicate. One of the key features is the ability to add friends, which allows for easy direct messaging and interaction. If you’re wondering whether someone has added you as a friend on Discord, there are a few ways to find out.

Checking Your Pending Friend Requests

The easiest way to see if someone has added you as a friend on Discord is to check your pending friend requests. Here’s how:

  1. Open the Discord app or website and log in to your account
  2. Click on the Friends tab on the left sidebar (the icon looks like a person waving)
  3. Look for the “Pending” section, which will show any incoming friend requests
  4. From here, you can choose to accept or ignore the friend request

If you don’t see any pending friend requests, it’s possible that the person hasn’t sent you one yet, or that you’ve already accepted or ignored their request in the past.

Using Mutual Friends and Servers

Another way to determine if someone has added you as a friend on Discord is by looking at your mutual friends and servers. If you share a mutual friend or server with the person in question, you may be able to see their username and profile picture in those contexts.

For example, if you’re in a server with someone and you see their username in the member list, you can click on their profile to see if you have the option to send them a friend request. If the option is not available, it’s likely that you’re already friends or that they have disabled friend requests in their privacy settings.

Similarly, if you have a mutual friend with someone, you can ask that friend if they know whether the person has sent you a friend request or not.

Adjusting Your Privacy Settings

If you’re not receiving friend requests from someone you expect to, it’s possible that your privacy settings are preventing them from sending you one. Here’s how to adjust your privacy settings to allow friend requests:

  1. Open the Discord app or website and log in to your account
  2. Click on the User Settings cog icon in the bottom left corner
  3. Click on the “Privacy & Safety” tab in the left sidebar
  4. Scroll down to the “Server Privacy Defaults” section
  5. Make sure the “Allow direct messages from server members” option is enabled

By enabling this option, you’ll allow people who share a server with you to send you direct messages and friend requests. If you want to be even more accessible, you can also enable the “Allow friend requests from everyone” option in the same section.

FAQ

What if I accidentally ignored a friend request?

If you accidentally ignored a friend request, the person who sent it will not be notified. However, they will no longer see the option to send you a friend request, so they may assume that you ignored it. If you change your mind and want to add them as a friend, you’ll need to send them a friend request yourself.

Can I see who I’ve sent friend requests to?

Yes, you can see a list of pending friend requests that you’ve sent by clicking on the Friends tab and looking for the “Outgoing” section. From here, you can cancel any pending requests if you change your mind.

What happens when I accept a friend request?

When you accept a friend request, the person who sent it will be added to your friends list, and you’ll be added to theirs. You’ll be able to see when they’re online, send them direct messages, and interact with them more easily in servers you share.

Can I block someone who keeps sending me friend requests?

Yes, if someone is repeatedly sending you friend requests and you don’t want to receive them, you can block that person by right-clicking on their username and selecting “Block”. This will prevent them from sending you any further friend requests or messages.

How do I unfriend someone on Discord?

To unfriend someone on Discord, right-click on their username in your friends list and select “Remove Friend”. This will remove them from your friends list, and you will no longer be able to see when they’re online or send them direct messages. However, you will still be able to interact with them in servers you share.

By following these steps and adjusting your privacy settings as needed, you can easily manage your friend requests and connections on Discord. Whether you’re looking to add new friends or keep your online interactions more private, Discord provides the tools and options to help you customize your experience.